Before I left for my mission I was kinda maybe dating Ethan. I say this because I was a little unsure of what we had...if we were actually dating? just friends? or "just kicking it!" (<---that's Ethan's description of it back then) He was in Utah so focused with trying to finish school and I had a life called, "WORK". He was four hours away in a different state so a long distance relationship was impossible! But he traveled to Grand Junction A LOT and whenever he was in town we would hang out. I finally asked him one day because I was starting to wonder where we were in our relationship. And when I asked him he responded with a "oh we're just kicking it." I really liked him though and thought he was cute. But when a guy says that to you that means he is not too interested, he just wants to hang out whenever his around. Well that's the kind of vibe I got after that conversation. From that point on, I just assumed we were friends and that's it. But according to Ethan, we were dating! I am sure Ethan will give you his own version of the story...because he claims that he actually asked me out on a date and I brought my cousin to our date! Does not make any sense...but to me, what I've shared above is how it all happened :D
This is Ethan's favorite pic of us! Maybe because it was at
Chuckee Cheese--where we had most of our dates!
My favorite pic! A trip we took to California...it was FUN :D
Last trip we took to Utah before I left for my mish!!! We were inseparable when we were able to see each other :)
Good times :)
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Our last pic before I left him for 18 months! It was hard for both of us,
but Ethan made it so easy for me. He was the greatest support I had!
I think we were talking and "kicking it" whenever he comes to town for work-- sometimes I don't think he came for work...haha! And we did this for a year and a half. I then decided I was going on a mission so I started preparing for it! (At this time, it was very clear that we were DATING! LOL)But I was pretty straight forward with Ethan that nothing is going to stop me and going on a mission is something that I have always wanted to do. So when I made that decision I had to do it NO MATTER WHAT! Ethan said he will wait, but I was pretty straightforward with him that he can date and do whatever he wants. Well, Ethan like me is a man of his words. When he made that decision to wait for me, he sure did with every ounce of his body. We wrote each other on and off, but communicating through letters was hard. A lot changed in those eighteen months so coming back home, I did not know what to expect from him. Because of his persistence and determination, we were reunited once again. And just six weeks later (a whole transfer), Ethan proposed. When I bring this up to Ethan of how I have only been home for a month and a half and he proposed! His response is simply, "You snooze, you loose!"
The night I came home he took me to my favorite restaurant. It was Valentine's Day too!
Our favorite spot together. Where he got on his knees and proposed!
He liked it so he put a ring on it :)
A lot of my friends and families were shocked of how quick everything was going, especially my side of the family. I was on a mission for a a year and half and lost contact with basically everyone and got home and was engaged to a guy named Ethan that most of my family haven't even met. They must have thought I was crazy! But I felt good about it and through constant prayer, it was just the right thing to do. We had so much FUN taking our engagement pictures at where Ethan proposed. The following are a few of my favorites :)
Our photographer was so good at what she does. We were so happy and had a lot of fun!
The view was just beautiful!
And we were ecstatic that we will be with each other FOREVER!
Three months later we were sealed for time and eternity at the Laie Hawaii Temple. It was a day I will cherish forever! I have been blessed with an amazing husband that I get to spend my whole life and eternity with. It was a beautiful sunny hot day in Laie, Hawaii and we were both so happy that we have made promises with each other, but most importantly with the Lord. It was the best day of our lives!!!
WE. DID. IT!!!
My E.A.J :D
His forever <3
Our amazing family that made our day extra special! We love you all...
Concluded the photo shoot at the Laie Point and ended the night
with delicious food and a great memorable time with families!!!
A day we will cherish forever...
Last Sunday was 06.22.14-- it was our two year anniversary! And guess what? I totally forgot all about it? How could I? I felt so stupid when my mother wished me Happy Anniversary. I embarrassingly thanked her then walked away thinking..."Oh my gosh Ree! You have only been married two-years and you're already forgetting your anniversary-_-" Epic fail! I am assuming Ethan forgot about it too because he did not say anything about it. But he was very sick so he stayed in bed whole day :( I would have done the same if I had what he was coming down with. So we ended up celebrating our two year anniversary the next day. I am so mad at myself I did not take any pictures :( So the following pictures is a summary of what we did. We had so much fun :)
He took me to a movie. One of my favorite movie
is "50 First Dates" so when I saw the preview of
this new movie they did together, I was so excited!
Ethan pays good attention to what I tell him...so he took me :)
Dinner at my favorite restaurant! He is sooo good to me :D
Then we came home to this trouble maker who was
picking out our couch cushion with the help of Raskullz. -_-
We ended the night with a new tradition that I thought of and hopefully we can do it every year. As I was reflecting back on these past two years I was surprised at how much has happened. We have experienced a lot in just two years and we are very blessed for all that we've received from the Lord. We have been able to express some of these blessings to each other, but there are also some that we haven't had the chance to. Life can get hectic and other important priorities can get in the way that at times we miss an opportunity to share our thoughts and feelings to one another. It is sad that I am now just realizing this, but you know what? It's okay...It's called LIFE! So I decided I'd write Ethan a letter and just give him an update of how my two years have been, what he has done these past two years that I love and enjoy and the things that we should both try and be better at. I asked him to write me a letter too! (He still hasn't written me one...SMH! Hopefully one day this won't ever be a problem again. *fingers crossed*)
<3 The L.O.V.E Letter's <3
My letter to Him <3
His Letter to Me <3
I have this enormous love for the date June 22nd! Not only was I sealed to the love of my life two years ago for time and eternity...I was also confirmed a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints six years ago. Is it coincidence? Was it meant to be the way it is? I am not sure and I can't explain how it all happened on the very same date. But all I know is I will forever cherish this date. I am tremendously blessed and who I am today because of these two significant events that has happened in my life.